Psalms 139:14. If you are feeling unloved, it is because you do not love yourself. If you are in a loveless marriage, you need to concentrate solely on you. Why are you so broken? Why were you so desperate to get married? Whatever you were running away from then that is haunting you now? The void you are trying to get your husband or wife to fill is reserved for God and God alone. Only He can make you feel safe, loved, and secure. Everything around you can change, but God is the only absolute.

If you are in a loveless marriage and feeling unloved, you must remember that you are a wonderful, bright person. The Lord created you in His image. God does not make junk. (Psalms 139:14, "I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well”). Love yourself because God created you and loves you.

PSALMS 139 BIBLE SCRIPTURE Psalms 139:14, “I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.”

Deuteronomy 30:19. When you are having feelings of being unloved, you are in a time of transition. This could be problems with your marriage or any of your relationships. The real problem is your relationship with God. If you are feeling unloved, you are out of relationship with God. You must take responsibility for you and the part you have played in your marriage, your personal relationships, and your relationship with God. You must choose God over any situation or relationship (Deuteronomy 30:19, “I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live:”). God loves you, and all you need to do is choose Him. Only through Him can you love yourself and feel loved. You will never be able to make anyone happy or be happy yourself until you learn to love yourself and God.

DEUTERONOMY 30 BIBLE SCRIPTURE Deuteronomy 30:19, “I call heaven and earth to record this day against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose life, that both thou and thy seed may live:”

Philippians 4:8. If you are feeling unloved in a relationship, you need to think on the good things of God to show you the way. Above all do not separate yourself from Christian believers. Stay in church, stay under the word and allow peace to have her perfect work in you. Jesus is peace. Allow Him to reign in your heart, mind and soul. Think on whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, Whatever things are lovely, what ever things are of good report. If there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy, meditate on these things (Philippians 4:8, “Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”). If you need help, God and fellow Christians are here to help you.

PHILIPPIANS 4 BIBLE SCRIPTURE Philippians 4:8, “Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things.”

Isaiah 43:25. If you repent of your sins, there is no reason to feel unloved by God or anyone else. You may have committed adultery or lied to someone, but God still loves you. God forgives you the first time you repent of your sins. (Isaiah 43:25, “I, even I, am he that blotteth out thy transgressions for mine own sake, and will not remember thy sins”). You must stop feeling unloved, and now forgive yourself. There is no sin that is unforgivable except blasphemy against the Holy Spirit. Sins such as adultery are not blasphemy against the Holy Ghost. (Matthew 12:31, Wherefore I say unto you, All manner of sin and blasphemy shall be forgiven unto men: but the blasphemy against the Holy Ghost shall not be forgiven unto men”). Stop feeling unloved because of what you have done. God loves you.

ISAIAH 43 BIBLE SCRIPTURE Isaiah 43:25, “I, even I, am he that blotteth out thy transgressions for mine own sake, and will not remember thy sins.”